People say pairs are made in heaven. The god shows us the way and we meet our life partners. And, when you finally meet your life partner, you tie a knot of a beautiful relationship into marriage. “Marriage has the power to set the course of your life as a whole. If your marriage is strong, even if all the circumstances in your life around you are filled with trouble and weakness, it won’t matter. You will be able to move out into the world in strength.”
But “A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” A happy marriage is a promise between the two to care and support in good things, bad things, and the terrible ones all around life. Your life will not go unnoticed because your partner will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because he/she will be your witness. No matter what ups and downs life comes with, you and your partner will not leave the hands.
If you take a look beyond a happy marriage plan, then you will see a happy future in which you’d be holding hands walking in the park when both of you are retired. But now a day’s marriages is losing all the promises, you may have noticed at the traffic light, when you look around at the cars the couples are not talking to each other. It seems as if two strangers are sitting next to each other. Both of them are staring ahead, each deep in his/her thoughts. That’s the sad reality of life, because of the hectic lifestyle we are living, coming home and doing all mundane task, it seems impossible for many couples to make each other laugh and enjoy life together.
But we give you three rules which will help you to get gratification in your married life.
- Trust is the most precious thread to tie your marriage into long lasting happy marriage. Although love is important, but a blend of love and trust can convert that worsened marriage into the strong and healthy marriage. Why trust is so important? There can be several reasons, but the easiest one to explain is your partner start making false imagination about his/her partner in his mind. This will ultimately lead to dubiousness which will ultimately make the issue shoddier. The day you start trusting your partner, your marriage will be successful.
- There is a saying “Meeting up with each other is easy, living together is not”. It is when you start living together; you discover a whole new side to our partner. It could be His/her living habits, quirks, but when it comes to doing compromise and willingness to change a little of our lifestyle the marriages get worse. So the key to long lasting relationships is to cooperate with each other.
- Never argue with your partner because when two people have different opinion on the same topic, the argument can never be won. Instead of making the argument more complicated and before that argument results in a big fight one of you should stop the argument.
There is a saying, “You don’t marry the person you can live with – you marry the person you can’t live without.” It doesn’t take a lot of hard work to make your marriage a happy marriage. All you need is trust and love, without love marriage will not work and without trust a marriage will not work either, even if the love is present.
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